Quick question – how do you all feel about your girlfriend or boyfriend’s ex?
If you ask me, I say they’re bad news. I simply cannot understand those people that are in a relationship that say “oh yeah, my ex and I are great friends. My boyfriend/girlfriend is totally cool with it”. Why?! I don’t understand. How are they ok with it?
I’m of the opinion that once you enter a new relationship, all ties with the ex should be cut off (exception: if the two if you have baggage together – kids, house, dog, etc. If so, any communication should be about that only). Does this sound like I’m a crazy, jealous girlfriend? Maybe. Ok, it might. But I think I’m just being logical.
You think you know your boyfriend/girlfriend? Better than anyone else? Think again. There’s someone else that knows them just as well as you do, if not more. Just like you, they know:
· What turns them on
· What turns them off
· Where they like to be kissed
· How to get them to open up
· What their dreams, hopes and fears are
Hypothetically of course, put yourself in a room with your ex. If you really wanted to hook up with him/her that night, do you think you could do it? Do you think you could be persuasive enough, to say and do the right thing to get them to go home with you? My bet is yes.
I’m just sayin… The random hottie standing at the bar? Probably not worth getting agitated over.
The ex, however? Well I can’t say I’ve ever heard of them being good news.